I have feelings for him but I don’t know if he feels the same for me.



Thank you Somtochukwu for this opportunity. I pray that the Lord keeps giving you more wisdom to advice us positively. My question is that “There is a guy that I have feelings for, I usually think about him all the time, but the problem is that I don’t know if he has feelings for me too. Because, he doesn’t act like he does, even tough I have never given him a green light that I like him”. Please kindly tell me what to do about this.

Okay. Having feelings for an opposite sex is normal so you aren’t to blame for experiencing that. There is usually a high tendency that when you are having feelings for someone, the person is also having feelings for you but he doesn’t know how to approach and tell you how he feels. So, one of you have to make the first move. My advice is that, if you have feelings for him, kindly walk up to him and tell him how you feel and why you feel so (maybe you like his intelligence, sense of humor or his positive appearance) as this will help in reducing the intensity of how you always think and wishes he likes you. You may be surprised that he also likes you.

But, I will also tell you to be very careful and ensure that you have observed his character overtime and find out that he is that kind of person that wants to live a positive life. Goodluck. 

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