Tolu Enaife writes another Relationship Composition (part 6)
I’m tired of girls being materialistic and shameless.
“I want to marry a RICH man” “I want to date a RICH boy.”
Now trust me there’s nothing wrong with that.
But what efforts are you making to be a rich woman? Abi, na only Adam God give money brain?
All you know is shining teeth everywhere, twerking and disrespecting yourselves so that men can spend money on you.
Later you’ll come and be crying, “I thought he loved me. He doesn’t even respect me. After all I did for him.”
Abeg, what did you do for him?
Once in a while you buy him wristband or Fanta? Is that all?
Then you ask him for money 24/7, collect his money to buy Brazilian hair of 109k, ask him to buy IPhone 7 for you, drag him with you to boutique to shop.
Haba!
You have practically turned this guy to ATM machine.
When all you want him for is his money, why bother expecting true love in return?
U go wicked small o.
Oh so you think boys have no sense abi? You now turn them to maga. You say they don’t know your worth.
That’s a FAT lie. They do know your worth, and that worth can be bought with few wads of cash.
These men have hearts too, and they not need someone who’s first instinct is to ask for ATM password but someone who’ll help them achieve all the good things they want to whilst also making something of herself.
Your love for money could sometimes be the root of your unhappiness.
P.S : I’m not hurt, I’m not lonely, I’m not heartbroken and I don’t hate men, as many have thought.
I just can’t deal with lack of purpose.